I echo all the above. Folks These are scam sites. I am a systems analysts. My forte is flushing out ghost writers.match.com operates in the AME fashion. If you are dumb enough to believe you will ever meet anyone on these thieving sites. Well you deserve to get ripped off. Don't take my word for it, but I am here to tell you all that you are throwing away both your time and money. You want to test them, you want to see for yourself how much of a con/rip this is? you want to "flush" them out? Heres how?First, it takes two. You and a friend of the opposite sex. Spend the least amount of money on a subscription you can. Second, you each do up your profiles. Then play the game, that's right, send each other them lovey dovey mails, winks, and all the other feel good BS they work you over with. You will find the ghost writers uttering everything, you know why? Because it's all about string the chump/suckers along. Sorry, that's the truth, but do your own experiment.